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Sep 27, 2011 ... most certainly means "do you understand me?" "You see me" is unfamiliar to me ( US EN), perhaps they mean "Do you see what I mean?". Ya bYstro gavaryU? Do you understand me? Вы понимаете меня? Vy menyA panimAyete? I don't understand you. Я не понимаю вас. Ya ne panimAyu vas. You searched for: do you understand me ( English Spanish ). [ Turn off colors ]. API call; Download a TMX; Contribute a TMX ... Apr 23, 2011 ... Suppose I tell something to my companion and I want to make sure he understands me. I thought I may simply ask "Do you understand me?".	It doesn't look like this phrase is very popular! The search could not find any examples on the internet.

Do you understand me

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Sep 27, 2011 ... most certainly means "do you understand me?" "You see me" is unfamiliar to me ( US EN), perhaps they mean "Do you see what I mean?".
Ya bYstro gavaryU? Do you understand me? Вы понимаете меня? Vy menyA panimAyete? I don't understand you. Я не понимаю вас. Ya ne panimAyu vas.
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Apr 23, 2011 ... Suppose I tell something to my companion and I want to make sure he understands me. I thought I may simply ask "Do you understand me?".

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