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I debated whether to tell you in person... I think you know what's right, whether I had to tell you or not. I've been wondering for days whether to try and tell you or not, or how. Trouble is, after the first 6 feet it's hard to tell whether or not you're jumping or you're falling. I was troubled whether to tell you just before your departure. I'm still thinking whether to tell you or not... I've been in two minds about whether to tell you or not. I just didn't know whether to tell you or not, since it didn't change anything.	I debated whether to tell you in person... I'm hoping there's something that I forgot, like maybe you were debating on whether or not to tell Kirk the difference between antiperspirant and deodorant. So basically you left it to your lawyer to decide whether or not to tell the truth. And I have to decide whether or not to tell her. The truth is, when I got that letter from the Ministry, I hesitated whether or not to tell them So I hang up and debate whether or not to tell Don, throw myself on my sword. Unfortunately, we lost a week while you decided whether or not to tell me they were here. I was debating whether or not to tell anyone.

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I debated whether to tell you in person...
I think you know what's right, whether I had to tell you or not.
I've been wondering for days whether to try and tell you or not, or how.
Trouble is, after the first 6 feet it's hard to tell whether or not you're jumping or you're falling.
I was troubled whether to tell you just before your departure.
I'm still thinking whether to tell you or not...
I've been in two minds about whether to tell you or not.
I just didn't know whether to tell you or not, since it didn't change anything.

I debated whether to tell you in person...
I'm hoping there's something that I forgot, like maybe you were debating on whether or not to tell Kirk the difference between antiperspirant and deodorant.
So basically you left it to your lawyer to decide whether or not to tell the truth.
And I have to decide whether or not to tell her.
The truth is, when I got that letter from the Ministry, I hesitated whether or not to tell them
So I hang up and debate whether or not to tell Don, throw myself on my sword.
Unfortunately, we lost a week while you decided whether or not to tell me they were here.
I was debating whether or not to tell anyone.